You can't change people
You always get told that you can't change anyone but yourself , however you kind of don't follow it. You wishing that someone is different is kind of trying to change them because over time you actions will prove this. Look at it like this. You have a friend that's bad in keeping contact with you, and you start wishing they did. Over time your going to keep telling them "why don't you call anyone" or "I guess we're not that close then" trying to make them feel bad and see your point (which they should I'm not going to lie). Trying to change someone is not just telling them what you want them to do but trying to make them passively change too. I've just learnt that you have to leave people to figure things out for themselves, because if you keep on telling someone what you want from them, chances are they'll change for a second or get annoyed with you. Leave it. Let that someone realise that without calling you they're not goi...